slight dilemma

hi ladies. so rey (meg, he's our friend from miami, the guy i met spikey through) arrived last night with 2 friends to visit. i've known he was coming for a while, no big deal. we always have fun when he visits because he's a really good guest - he likes to take us out :)

anyways, when i found out that rey was coming a while ago, i mentioned it to spikey, kind of insinuating that he should come too, but spikey said he was going to chicago to visit his brother this weekend. ok, no big deal, i forgot all about it. yesterday, rey tells jackie that spikey's coming on friday, and he didn't say anything because he wanted to surprise me. that's cute and all, but what am i supposed to do with him and joe? joe's a really good guy - there's real potential there for the future, and i wouldn't want to screw things up (especially not for a guy that doesn't live in nyc and who has a son). on the other hand, i think spikey's just so much fun, and i was really looking forward to going home next weekend and hanging out with him. jackie says i shouldn't worry about it and i should just invite joe to hang out with us this weekend - spikey will understand, he knows we're not dating or anything. even before i knew spikey was coming, though, i had already told joe i would be kind of busy this weekend because i had a lot of friends in town (concetta, evelyn and her mom and little sis, rey and his friends), so joe was already ok with not seeing me this weekend.

sooo, i guess now all i have to do is figure out if i want to kiss/fool around with spikey this weekend without feeling guilty about joe. thoughts?