2.28.2005

weekend

i find it amusing that almost every year i havent seen any of the movies up for best picture...

my weekend was interesting...friday night satyan slept over, sat night dev slept over, sun night satyan again....

i know i know...dev should not have slept over, but i was pretty tipsy when i got home sat night and he called and was outside - apparently he was at a bar with his friends near the apt, not sure why/etc cause i was too drunk to ask those questions...he came up and i think i passed out pretty soon after that. when we woke up i told him that even for me it was nice to have him there and it feels comfortable to be with him but thats not what i want in arelationship, i dont want to stay with him cause it is comfortable, i want to be happy and i want to figure thigns out...

anyway, he said ok, wasnt fighting or showing that he was sad or anything, he left at 1030 when i woke up to study...

then last night satyan came over for dinner/to watch the oscars. it was fun...but he stayed the night again! i totally didnt want that! at 1130 when the oscars were over he did the same "so should we go to bed" thing that he did on friday night and i was like no you should go home, we both have to get up early for work...and he was like no id rather just get up at 6 and go home then i want to stay...it was awk and i felt bad so he stayed...and left at 6....he def is getting too attached and im totally not! so i told him that also, i was like i like hanging out with you i just dont want to get into a routine of seeing you every day and spending the night with you like this...i need/want time tomyself...he seemed to listen but then when i told him i was going to boston for the whole weekend he def had this "youre going the whole weekend so i want see you" look....he will be in FL next week for conferences that a bunch of people on my team are going to also. i think he was bummed that he wouldnt see me for like a week. how do i get myself in these predicaments???

ok, time to get to work...i need to leave early to get some work done tonight...

the bus on friday sounds fun :) the earliest i could get on one would be around 530 or 6...traffic will suck but we should prob be there by 10...