edgar agrees with anusha

on the coworkers/splitting the bill thing . . . as a person who doesn't drink at all, he HATES the "oh, let's just split it evenly" thing . . . AND while he would gladly pay for me any day of the week, it is not because i am female. it is because i'm his female. otherwise, we are all equals - those hos better cash up their own 'cause he ain't paying :) (i told him the story last night and before i got to the part of so dev got to pay he was like so he said no right? 'cause there is no way he should have had to throw down his credit card for that)

on the dev thing . . . do you ever thing this in between period is going to turn your stomach on dev? i just find it hard to be in an equal and loving relationship with a person that basically given up all personal control to you. think about mike - did you ever contemplate going back to him after the whole "oh yeah, i have a girlfriend but i'd break up with her if you told me to" situation? it just feels a little like his throwing away his individuality/dignity/last shred of self respect and personally - that don't make me get all hot

and on a final note . . .

what would you do if you knew you couldn't fail? (found on a coffee mug for sale at the coffee house near my apartment)