more wedding stuff

the wedding is going to be either memorial day weekend next year or the weekend before or after - they haven't picked out a place yet to have it at . . .
i didn't want to be one because the whole dressing up wedding ceremony thing is just a little over rated to me . . . but i think part of the problem is i've never gone to a wedding where i really care about and/or support the marriage - I haven't gone to a friend's except vince (from chang's) and i think he jumped into that for all the wrong reasons . . .