pregnancy

i don't know how surrounded you guys are with women getting knocked up - but it seems to be contagious around here. so - i'm full of useless info on pregnancy. so, i've been informed of the don't tell everyone until after the first trimester because if you are going to miscarry, it will probably be before then. so, esther is pregnant (esther is edgar's best friend) she's been trying so this is a good thing. so, he tells me and i ask him how far along she is - 10 DAYS! you don't start telling people at 10 days!!! she was at the doctor's for something else and it was discovered - and then somehow the information got to her husband before her so he's already started informing his family so she decided she should start spreading the news. edgar is totally excited (he, his cousin eli and esther are a trio - they figured he'd remain single forever, eli is gay so esther was the one who was supposed to have kids for them all to shower with love and attention) can you tell at 10 days??? should you be telling people?! its just incredible to me. esther is so easy to work up - i do not envy her husband 'cause she's going to be a complete space case for the next 9 months . . . and thats taking for granted that this preganancy does pan out . . . riduculous.