yeah

i think that the best thing would just be to demand it out of him.. if he's trying to avoid having the fight now b/c there are people there.. well just by telling you that he's made and making you wonder.. well taht means that you ARE having the fight even with people there.. if anything it's worse b/c even though you aren't arguing in front of them.. it's leaving you upset and him upset and the buildup is worse than just having it out to begin with.

i think it's perfectly reasonable to just go for a drive and have the talk about what is bothering him NOW instead of waiting 5 days. is there a way you could sneak out w him after the concert? it's almost like you are doing all the other parts of the argument anyway.. just not the part that will actually solve it. that is the part he's delaying.

i don't know him well enough to know if this would work.. it might be that he just refuses to talk about it this week (which is weird)

but you definitely deserve better than just being shut out for a week.